Some elderly migrants who follow their children to New Zealand are being abandoned by their loved ones, financially fleeced by their offspring and even physically assaulted by their family.
That’s according to a charity working to support senior citizens in South Asian communities.
And it comes as new research finds elder abuse to be rampant among Asian communities, with about half of older Indians and a third from the Chinese community aged 65 and over claiming they are victims.
Jeet Suchdev, chairman of Bhartiya Samaj, said there are heartbreaking stories about seniors in the Indian community enduring alleged elder abuse – often by their loved ones.
Bhartiya Samaj, a charitable trust which Suchdev started in 1995, has been referred “dozens of cases” over the past few years – attending to at least two cases a month.
Suchdev said one couple he worked with moved to New Zealand from India to help raise their grandchildren.
Speaking very little English and in their 80s, the couple had trusted their daughter and her husband with their finances. After returning home from a hospital stay, they discovered their bank accounts had been drained, he said. Never in their wildest imagination did they ever think their daughter, “their own flesh and blood”, would “rob them” of all their money, Suchdev said.Another woman Suchdev worked with, a housewife in her 70s from India, was invited to move to New Zealand by her son after her husband passed away.
But when her son’s business failed, he kicked her out of the family home and “abandoned her” on the street, Suchdev said.
In other instances, family members have physically abused their elderly relatives but Suchdev said that almost always the victims did not want to get the police involved or file any official complaint.
“Elder abuse is an epidemic that is widespread and rampant, but so hidden that the real level of abuse may never be known,” Suchdev said.
“They come from cultures that are not used to making complaints and won’t make a report because they feel it is a loss of face.
“Very often, we have difficulty of even convincing these victims that they are, in fact, victims of elder abuse.”
Suchdev, who has been working as a community social worker for more than 20 years, said it was important to let people in migrant communities know that any sort of elder abuse was not okay, even if a family member committed it.
Te Tari Kaumātua, the Office for Seniors, estimates one in 10 older people in New Zealand are victims of elder abuse, but most abuse isn’t recognised or ignored.
A new study, Belonging as an Ageing Asian, by Emeritus Professor of Diversity Edwina Pio from AUT University also found the issue remains hidden due to a reluctance to complain.
About 96 per cent of cases went unreported as victims were reluctant to speak out.
Pio interviewed 18 high-level managers who worked with older people in Auckland, and conducted three focus groups comprising a total of 38 from the Chinese, Indian and South Korean communities aged 65 or older for her report.
The three ethnic groups have the largest communities of older Asians in Auckland, with the Chinese numbering 16,836, Indians 9345, and South Koreans 1434.
SOURCE NZ HERALD