{"id":6123,"date":"2023-07-03T22:31:39","date_gmt":"2023-07-03T10:31:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thebuzz.apnanetwork.co.nz\/?p=6123"},"modified":"2023-07-03T22:31:39","modified_gmt":"2023-07-03T10:31:39","slug":"teacher-struck-off-after-grooming-and-sexual-relationship-with-student-at-private-girls-school","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thebuzz.apnanetwork.co.nz\/?p=6123","title":{"rendered":"Teacher struck off after grooming and sexual relationship with student at private girls&#8217; school"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A teacher has been struck off after having a sexual relationship with a 16-year-old student at a private Christchurch girls&#8217; school.<\/p>\n<p>The Teachers Disciplinary Tribunal found the behaviour of Taurapa, formerly known as Connor Taurapa Matthews, struck at the heart of the student-teacher relationship and was at the &#8220;most serious end&#8221; of misconduct cases.<\/p>\n<p>Taurapa was employed as a te reo M\u0101ori teacher at Rangi Ruru in 2018 and involved in performing arts groups when he started showering Helena Dray with attention and affection in a relationship that lasted almost a year.<\/p>\n<p>Dray asked the tribunal to waive her right to privacy through name suppression, while Taurapa lost a bid to keep his name secret.<\/p>\n<p>Taurapa gifted Dray a writing journal for her 16th birthday and two poems &#8211; one of which was titled &#8216;Words of Love&#8217; &#8211; and pursued her through near-daily messaging, which graduated to the exchange of nude photographs and sexual activity.<\/p>\n<p>Dray told the tribunal Taurapa made space on a classroom floor with pillows and blankets for students to watch a musical on a projector one evening, when he kissed and &#8220;felt her up&#8221;, including touching her breasts.<\/p>\n<p>Taurapa was also a tutor living at a Christ&#8217;s College boarding house &#8211; a private boys&#8217; school that often holds joint extra-curricular activities and events with Rangi Ruru.<\/p>\n<p>During rehearsals for a musical production with Christ&#8217;s College, Dray said Taurapa would kiss and grope her in the dressing rooms, telling her it did not have any security cameras.<\/p>\n<p>Dray said Taurapa would often tell her to make sure she deleted their messages from her phone and &#8220;not to leave a trace&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Taurapa made it clear their relationship was to be kept a secret, the tribunal said.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;From initial grooming with attention and gifts, this quickly evolved into a highly inappropriate and sexualised relationship,&#8221; the decision said.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;This type of conduct strikes at the heart of the teacher-student relationship. It is at the most serious end of serious misconduct cases that come before the tribunal.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The tribunal said Taurapa abused his position of trust and authority and left Dray &#8220;bouncing around a dangerous myriad of thoughts and feelings&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Some days she thought they were &#8216;in love&#8217;. He rapidly moved her through a range of intimate chapters. Mental and emotional impact began to occur even during the relationship. Even if Ms Dray was predisposed to that &#8230; they were certainly exacerbated by Taurapa.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;We accept that the effect on her has been significant.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Taurapa&#8217;s behaviour was exposed after photographs were taken of his car outside Dray&#8217;s house late at night in 2019.<\/p>\n<p>He also sent inappropriate messages to another 16-year-old girl, bought designer earrings for her 17th birthday, invited her punting on the Avon, and asked for pictures of her in a bikini.<\/p>\n<p>The disciplinary tribunal ordered the cancellation of Taurapa&#8217;s teacher&#8217;s registration for serious misconduct.<\/p>\n<p>He had sought name suppression, arguing because he was M\u0101ori he would suffer from &#8220;tabloid-style&#8221; publication, but the tribunal found this was not a real and appreciable risk.<\/p>\n<p>The tribunal noted both Rangi Ruru and Christ&#8217;s College acted responsibly when concerns were raised.<\/p>\n<p>Source RNZ<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A teacher has been struck off after having a sexual relationship with a 16-year-old student at a private Christchurch girls&#8217; school. The Teachers Disciplinary Tribunal found the behaviour of Taurapa, formerly known as Connor Taurapa Matthews, struck at the heart of the student-teacher relationship and was at the &#8220;most serious end&#8221; of misconduct cases. 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