{"id":18561,"date":"2026-09-21T11:40:04","date_gmt":"2026-09-20T23:40:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thebuzz.apnanetwork.co.nz\/?p=18561"},"modified":"2026-09-21T11:40:04","modified_gmt":"2026-09-20T23:40:04","slug":"kaikohe-man-jailed-nine-years-for-rape-bat-attack-and-family-violence","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thebuzz.apnanetwork.co.nz\/?p=18561","title":{"rendered":"Kaikohe man jailed nine years for rape, bat attack and family violence"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\"><em class=\"italic\">Warning: This article discusses family harm and may be upsetting.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">A protection order was supposed to keep a woman safe.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">Instead, a judge said it proved &#8220;no better than a piece of soiled toilet paper&#8221; as her partner hunted her down, beat her, threatened her life and raped her during a sustained attack that left her fearing she would die.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">Now the Northland man has been jailed in the Whang\u0101rei District Court for nine years after being convicted of multiple violent offences, including rape, assault and threatening to kill.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">On the day of his trial in March, he pleaded guilty to two charges of driving while suspended, breach of a protection order and three assaults on a person in a family relationship.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">He took the remaining charges to trial and, the next day, a jury found him guilty.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">The victim, his partner, gave a video-recorded interview to police shortly after the 2024 incident.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">Judge John McDonald said she provided a clear account of the man&#8217;s actions, understood she was required to tell the truth, and was aware she could face prosecution if she lied deliberately.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">But on the second day of the trial, her evidence took a turn.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">&#8220;She was now saying that everything she said in her evidential interview &#8230; was just a pack of lies,&#8221; Judge McDonald said.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">&#8220;Apart from telling the truth about her age, her name, and the number of children she had and their names, everything else was untrue.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">&#8220;You never assaulted her, you never supplied her with drugs, you never raped her. She painted you as a loving, gentle giant of a man who did everything that you could for her, and that she was the one that was violent, she was the one that was disrespectful, she was the one who was addicted to methamphetamine, she was the one who wouldn&#8217;t look after her children.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">Judge McDonald said he allowed the Crown to cross-examine her and, although she accepted some events, she continued to deny the vast majority.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">Both the jury and judge rejected her evidence and found the man guilty of the charges.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">In May 2024, the man was driving with his partner when police stopped him in Kaikohe and issued a three-month suspension for driving with excessive demerit points.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">His partner then got into the driver&#8217;s seat and drove off before they switched seats again.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">Annoyed at losing his licence, he punched the woman in the face and began verbally abusing her and acting in a paranoid manner.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">The judge said she asked him to take her home, but he refused. She left the vehicle and began running down the road.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">He followed her and, out of fear, she got back in the car.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">When he arrived at an address, he got out of the car, blamed her and punched her several times in the head.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">&#8220;You told her to get out of the ute, to get on the back and bounce up and down on the tray,&#8221; the judge said.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">&#8220;She said she wouldn&#8217;t do that because she was concerned she may be injured. You yelled at her and, again out of fear, she did that.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">She continued to ask him to take her home, but he refused.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">They arrived at an address in Waimate North and he told her that, if she wanted to go home, she had to walk.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"[&amp;_h2]:text-md [&amp;_h3]:text-md [&amp;_h4]:text-md clear-left *:pb-12 *:pt-16\">\n<h3 class=\"text-fluid-md-lg leading-snug [&amp;_em]:font-sans-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-sans-italic font-sans-semibold\">&#8216;No one will have you&#8217;<\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">As she put on her shoes to leave, he assaulted her with a wooden bat, knocking her unconscious.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">When she came to, she tried to run away, but he grabbed her and continued to assault her.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">&#8220;She thought she was going to die,&#8221; the judge said. &#8220;She told you that if you keep punching her in the way that you were, you&#8217;re going to kill her. Your response to that was, &#8216;Oh well then, no one will have you.'&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">He then told her to make the bed and get in, saying, &#8220;Look, you&#8217;ve ruined my day, so I&#8217;m going to go about ruining yours,&#8221; Judge McDonald said.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">He then said, &#8220;I always get what I want&#8221;, before raping her.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">After the rape, he fell asleep and the woman managed to escape.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">Judge McDonald said she had a protection order in place.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">&#8220;All that was just a piece of paper, no better than a piece of soiled toilet paper against you.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">&#8220;It should have stopped you. It was worthless so far as protecting her was concerned.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"[&amp;_h2]:text-md [&amp;_h3]:text-md [&amp;_h4]:text-md clear-left *:pb-12 *:pt-16\">\n<h3 class=\"text-fluid-md-lg leading-snug [&amp;_em]:font-sans-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-sans-italic font-sans-semibold\">Where to get help:<\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text leading-normal [&amp;_li&gt;ol.list]:!mt-4 [&amp;_li&gt;ol.list]:!pb-0 [&amp;_li&gt;ul.list]:!mt-4 [&amp;_li&gt;ul.list]:!pb-0 [&amp;_li]:!mb-8 [&amp;_ol]:pb-4 [&amp;_ul]:pb-4\">\n<ul class=\"list [&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">\n<li class=\"\">Need to Talk? Free call or text 1737 any time to speak to a trained counsellor, for any reason<\/li>\n<li class=\"\"><a class=\"underline-brand-hover visited:text-foreground-secondary hover:visited:text-foreground-primary\" href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeline.org.nz\/\">Lifeline<\/a>: 0800 543 354 or text HELP to 4357<\/li>\n<li class=\"\">Suicide Crisis Helpline: 0508 828 865 \/ 0508 TAUTOKO. This is a service for people who may be thinking about suicide, or those who are concerned about family or friends<\/li>\n<li class=\"\"><a class=\"underline-brand-hover visited:text-foreground-secondary hover:visited:text-foreground-primary\" href=\"http:\/\/depression.org.nz\/\">Depression Helpline<\/a>: 0800 111 757 or text 4202<\/li>\n<li class=\"\"><a class=\"underline-brand-hover visited:text-foreground-secondary hover:visited:text-foreground-primary\" href=\"http:\/\/www.samaritans.org.nz\/\">Samaritans<\/a>: 0800 726 666<\/li>\n<li class=\"\"><a class=\"underline-brand-hover visited:text-foreground-secondary hover:visited:text-foreground-primary\" href=\"http:\/\/www.youthline.co.nz\/\">Youthline<\/a>: 0800 376 633 or text 234 or email talk@youthline.co.nz<\/li>\n<li class=\"\"><a class=\"underline-brand-hover visited:text-foreground-secondary hover:visited:text-foreground-primary\" href=\"https:\/\/whatsup.co.nz\/\">What&#8217;s Up<\/a>: 0800 WHATSUP \/ 0800 9428 787. This is free counselling for 5 to 19-year-olds<\/li>\n<li class=\"\"><a class=\"underline-brand-hover visited:text-foreground-secondary hover:visited:text-foreground-primary\" href=\"https:\/\/www.asianfamilyservices.nz\/services#AsianHelpline\">Asian Family Services<\/a>: 0800 862 342 or text 832. Languages spoken: Mandarin, Cantonese, Korean, Vietnamese, Thai, Japanese, Hindi, and English.<\/li>\n<li class=\"\"><a class=\"underline-brand-hover visited:text-foreground-secondary hover:visited:text-foreground-primary\" href=\"https:\/\/victimsupport.org.nz\/\">Victim Support<\/a> 0800 842 846.<\/li>\n<li class=\"\"><a class=\"underline-brand-hover visited:text-foreground-secondary hover:visited:text-foreground-primary\" href=\"http:\/\/www.rural-support.org.nz\/\">Rural Support Trust Helpline<\/a>: 0800 787 254<\/li>\n<li class=\"\">Healthline: 0800 611 116<\/li>\n<li class=\"\"><a class=\"underline-brand-hover visited:text-foreground-secondary hover:visited:text-foreground-primary\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ry.org.nz\/\">Rainbow Youth<\/a>: (09) 376 4155<\/li>\n<li class=\"\"><a class=\"underline-brand-hover visited:text-foreground-secondary hover:visited:text-foreground-primary\" href=\"https:\/\/outline.org.nz\/\">OUTLine<\/a>: 0800 688 5463<\/li>\n<li class=\"\"><a class=\"underline-brand-hover visited:text-foreground-secondary hover:visited:text-foreground-primary\" href=\"https:\/\/www.aoaketera.org.nz\/\">Aoake te R\u0101 bereaved by suicide service<\/a>: or call 0800 000 053<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\"><strong class=\"font-serif-text-medium\">If it is an emergency and you feel like you or someone else is at risk, call 111.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"[&amp;_h2]:text-md [&amp;_h3]:text-md [&amp;_h4]:text-md clear-left *:pb-12 *:pt-16\">\n<h3 class=\"text-fluid-md-lg leading-snug [&amp;_em]:font-sans-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-sans-italic font-sans-semibold\">Sexual Violence<\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text leading-normal [&amp;_li&gt;ol.list]:!mt-4 [&amp;_li&gt;ol.list]:!pb-0 [&amp;_li&gt;ul.list]:!mt-4 [&amp;_li&gt;ul.list]:!pb-0 [&amp;_li]:!mb-8 [&amp;_ol]:pb-4 [&amp;_ul]:pb-4\">\n<ul class=\"list [&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">\n<li class=\"\"><a class=\"underline-brand-hover visited:text-foreground-secondary hover:visited:text-foreground-primary\" href=\"http:\/\/www.police.govt.nz\/advice\/victims\/victims-rape-or-sexual-assault\">NZ Police<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li class=\"\">Rape Crisis: 0800 88 33 00.<\/li>\n<li class=\"\"><a class=\"underline-brand-hover visited:text-foreground-secondary hover:visited:text-foreground-primary\" href=\"https:\/\/rpe.co.nz\/get-help\/\">Rape Prevention Education<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li class=\"\"><a class=\"underline-brand-hover visited:text-foreground-secondary hover:visited:text-foreground-primary\" href=\"https:\/\/empowermenttrust.nz\/\">Empowerment Trust<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li class=\"\"><a class=\"underline-brand-hover visited:text-foreground-secondary hover:visited:text-foreground-primary\" href=\"http:\/\/helpauckland.org.nz\/\">HELP<\/a> (Auckland): 09 623 1700, (Wellington): 04 801 6655.<\/li>\n<li class=\"\"><a class=\"underline-brand-hover visited:text-foreground-secondary hover:visited:text-foreground-primary\" href=\"https:\/\/safetotalk.nz\/\">Safe to talk<\/a>: 0800 044 334.<\/li>\n<li class=\"\"><a class=\"underline-brand-hover visited:text-foreground-secondary hover:visited:text-foreground-primary\" href=\"https:\/\/tautokotane.nz\/\">Tautoko T\u0101ne Male Survivors Aotearoa<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li class=\"\"><a class=\"underline-brand-hover visited:text-foreground-secondary hover:visited:text-foreground-primary\" href=\"https:\/\/www.snapnetwork.org\/aotearoa_new_zealand\">Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests<\/a> (SNAP) 022 344 0496.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"[&amp;_h2]:text-md [&amp;_h3]:text-md [&amp;_h4]:text-md clear-left *:pb-12 *:pt-16\">\n<h3 class=\"text-fluid-md-lg leading-snug [&amp;_em]:font-sans-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-sans-italic font-sans-semibold\">Family Violence<\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text leading-normal [&amp;_li&gt;ol.list]:!mt-4 [&amp;_li&gt;ol.list]:!pb-0 [&amp;_li&gt;ul.list]:!mt-4 [&amp;_li&gt;ul.list]:!pb-0 [&amp;_li]:!mb-8 [&amp;_ol]:pb-4 [&amp;_ul]:pb-4\">\n<ul class=\"list [&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">\n<li class=\"\"><a class=\"underline-brand-hover visited:text-foreground-secondary hover:visited:text-foreground-primary\" href=\"http:\/\/www.womensrefuge.org.nz\/\">Women&#8217;s Refuge<\/a>: 0800 733 843.<\/li>\n<li class=\"\"><a class=\"underline-brand-hover visited:text-foreground-secondary hover:visited:text-foreground-primary\" href=\"http:\/\/areyouok.org.nz\/\">It&#8217;s Not OK<\/a> 0800 456 450.<\/li>\n<li class=\"\"><a class=\"underline-brand-hover visited:text-foreground-secondary hover:visited:text-foreground-primary\" href=\"http:\/\/www.2shine.org.nz\/\">Shine<\/a>: 0508 744 633.<\/li>\n<li class=\"\"><a class=\"underline-brand-hover visited:text-foreground-secondary hover:visited:text-foreground-primary\" href=\"http:\/\/www.victimsinfo.govt.nz\/\">Victim Support<\/a>: 0800 842 846.<\/li>\n<li class=\"\"><a class=\"underline-brand-hover visited:text-foreground-secondary hover:visited:text-foreground-primary\" href=\"http:\/\/helpauckland.org.nz\/\">HELP<\/a> Call 24\/7 (Auckland): 09 623 1700, (Wellington): 04 801 6655.<\/li>\n<li class=\"\"><a class=\"underline-brand-hover visited:text-foreground-secondary hover:visited:text-foreground-primary\" href=\"http:\/\/www.nnfvs.org.nz\/\">The National Network of Family Violence Services NZ<\/a> has information on specialist family violence agencies.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"font-serif-text mb-12 leading-normal\">\n<p class=\"[&amp;_em]:font-serif-text-italic [&amp;_cite]:font-serif-text-italic\">* <em class=\"italic\">This story originally appeared in the <\/em><a class=\"underline-brand-hover visited:text-foreground-secondary hover:visited:text-foreground-primary\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nzherald.co.nz\/nz\/crime\/kaikohe-man-jailed-nine-years-for-rape-bat-attack-and-family-violence\/D3AIRBAW4VFQHC5IO6RYJQMLM4\/\">New Zealand Herald<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Source: RNZ<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Warning: This article discusses family harm and may be upsetting. A protection order was supposed to keep a woman safe. Instead, a judge said it proved &#8220;no better than a piece of soiled toilet paper&#8221; as her partner hunted her down, beat her, threatened her life and raped her during a sustained attack that left [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":18562,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[174],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18561","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-nz-news"],"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thebuzz.apnanetwork.co.nz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18561","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thebuzz.apnanetwork.co.nz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thebuzz.apnanetwork.co.nz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thebuzz.apnanetwork.co.nz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/6"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thebuzz.apnanetwork.co.nz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=18561"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/thebuzz.apnanetwork.co.nz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18561\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18563,"href":"https:\/\/thebuzz.apnanetwork.co.nz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18561\/revisions\/18563"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thebuzz.apnanetwork.co.nz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/18562"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thebuzz.apnanetwork.co.nz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=18561"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thebuzz.apnanetwork.co.nz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=18561"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thebuzz.apnanetwork.co.nz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=18561"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}