{"id":15305,"date":"2025-10-14T04:22:52","date_gmt":"2025-10-13T15:22:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thebuzz.apnanetwork.co.nz\/?p=15305"},"modified":"2025-10-14T04:22:52","modified_gmt":"2025-10-13T15:22:52","slug":"13-year-old-girl-changes-schools-due-to-misogynistic-bullying-in-class","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thebuzz.apnanetwork.co.nz\/?p=15305","title":{"rendered":"13 year old girl changes schools due to misogynistic bullying in class"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;They&#8217;ve started to have the attitude women should go back to the kitchen and shouldn&#8217;t work.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Those are the words of a 13-year-old student who left school due to what she says is a rise in misogynistic and extremist behaviour by some boys in her class.<\/p>\n<p>Since\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.rnz.co.nz\/national\/programmes\/checkpoint\/audio\/2019005811\/teen-boys-being-exposed-to-extremism-and-toxic-masculinity\">Checkpoint spoke to the author of a report about the concerning rise of toxic masculinity in schools<\/a>, teachers and students have come forward keen to talk about their own experiences<\/p>\n<p>Amy* is 13 and up until the end of term two she went to school in Wellington.<\/p>\n<p>She decided to share her story with Checkpoint in the hope it might help others.<\/p>\n<div class=\"block-item\">\n<div class=\"c-play-controller u-blocklink\" data-uuid=\"155a65ec-ccb0-480d-9cbc-e69d50478837\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"h-screen max-h-[calc(10rem*var(--base-multiplier))] min-h-[calc(6rem*var(--base-multiplier))]\">\n<article class=\"@container\/queue-media relative w-full h-full bg-off-white\">\n<div class=\"flex h-full\">\n<div class=\"@[16.25em]\/queue-media:block relative hidden aspect-square h-full flex-none overflow-hidden bg-theme-primary\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"absolute h-full w-full object-cover\" src=\"https:\/\/media.rnztools.nz\/rnz\/image\/upload\/s--G_iieSFu--\/c_fill,f_auto,g_auto,h_100,q_auto,w_100\/v1671591260\/4LGF99X_checkpoint_internal_cover_png?_a=BACCd2AD\" alt=\"\" width=\"100\" height=\"100\" aria-hidden=\"true\" \/><\/div>\n<div class=\"@container\/queue-media-content h-full w-full\">\n<div class=\"flex h-full w-full flex-grow flex-col justify-between overflow-hidden p-8\">\n<div class=\"flex flex-col gap-4\">\n<h3 class=\"order-2 mb-4 text-black line-clamp-2 text-sm\">Misogynistic and extemist behaviour forces teen to leave school<\/h3>\n<div class=\"order-1 flex items-baseline gap-8 text-xs leading-snug\"><span class=\"font-sans-semibold line-clamp-1 text-heavy-grey\">Checkpoint<\/span><span class=\"whitespace-nowrap tabular-nums text-xs text-heavy-grey\">13 October 2025<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"flex items-center justify-between gap-4\">\n<div class=\"@[6.5em]\/queue-media-content:gap-8 flex flex-grow items-center gap-4\"><button class=\"group\/button font-sans-semibold items-center justify-center gap-8 whitespace-nowrap rounded-full border leading-normal flex h-24 w-24 [&amp;&gt;svg]:h-[calc(1.8rem*var(--base-multiplier))] [&amp;&gt;svg]:w-[calc(1.8rem*var(--base-multiplier))] hover:bg-brand-dark hover:text-white bg-brand border-transparent text-white\" type=\"button\" aria-label=\"Play Misogynistic and extemist behaviour forces teen to leave school\"><\/button><\/p>\n<div class=\"@container\/queue-add-button inline-flex w-full\"><button class=\"group\/button font-sans-semibold items-center justify-center gap-8 whitespace-nowrap rounded-full border leading-normal flex gap-[calc(0.5rem*var(--base-multiplier))] px-8 pb-[calc(0.25rem*var(--base-multiplier))] pt-[calc(0.15rem*var(--base-multiplier))] text-sm hover:bg-brand-dark hover:text-white hover:border-brand-dark border-black\/50 bg-transparent text-black @[4.38em]\/queue-add-button:flex hidden\" type=\"button\" aria-label=\"Queue Misogynistic and extemist behaviour forces teen to leave school\"><span class=\"inline-flex items-center gap-[calc(0.3rem*var(--base-multiplier))]\"><span class=\"font-sans-normal\">Queue<\/span><\/span><\/button><\/p>\n<div class=\"sr-only\" aria-live=\"polite\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ml-auto flex h-full items-center gap-4\">\n<div class=\"relative -top-4 right-2 h-24 w-24\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/article>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>It started a couple of years ago, when Amy noticed some of the boys in her class behaving differently, apparently influenced by the ideas of controversial social media personalities.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Definitely people on social media, I know one of them would definitely be Andrew Tate&#8230; just in general, they kind of influence each other.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s sort of like they&#8217;re trying to be hyper-masculine.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>She said some of the things they discuss in class are racist, sexist and homophobic. One of the boys&#8217; key beliefs is that women should only do things to benefit men.<\/p>\n<p>The boys who do not participate in the discriminatory behaviour, are labelled as &#8220;gay&#8221; or treated the same as the girls.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It seems like they just think we&#8217;re stupid and useless, I don&#8217;t think they like us,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;They&#8217;ve started having the attitude of things like women should go back to the kitchen and women shouldn&#8217;t work and things like that.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Instead of having various friendship groups in the classroom, Amy said it is simply these boys against everyone else, and they see themselves as the leaders.<\/p>\n<p>Amy said the boys do not like the girls to do well academically, or to participate in PE or team sports. Some of the girls have even given up as a result.<\/p>\n<p>Some of their comments are explicitly sexual.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Before lunch we were about to leave class and as we were going out, I heard another boy say, &#8216;oh I want something to stick my **** in&#8217;.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;At lunch again the same boy also said to some other boys in my class that he wanted to slap someone&#8217;s thighs, and he mentioned the name of this specific girl.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Amy, who now goes to a different school, said the boys openly engage in anti-trans rhetoric, too.<\/p>\n<p>rnz<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;They&#8217;ve started to have the attitude women should go back to the kitchen and shouldn&#8217;t work.&#8221; Those are the words of a 13-year-old student who left school due to what she says is a rise in misogynistic and extremist behaviour by some boys in her class. 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